As the Baby Boomer generation turns 80, the burden of caring for them is faced by an increasing number of Australians, battling for help from health and aged care services. The intergenerational report last year showed the share of the population aged 65 and over would increase by 6.1 percentage points to 23.4 per cent by 2062-63, while those aged 85 and over would make up 5 per cent of the population, up from 2.1 per cent.

Nearly one in five unpaid carers is aged 57, with both parents ageing and coping with the challenges confronting spouses, children, other relatives and friends.

Coote, who has worked in social care for 39 years, says taking on a carer role has meant making sacrifices in her personal and professional life.

“You become more and more isolated from your friends and community because you can’t have people to your home and if you are lucky enough to work, you’re just exhausted,” she says.

She has also lost significant income and superannuation entitlements, not to mention saying goodbye to paid leave. “You don’t get a break, you don’t get time off,” she says.

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Despite it all, Coote says her family has been lucky to be able to spend so much time together.

“Our whole lives have been completely altered because of this role,” she says. “But my daughter is the most glorious, extraordinary human being.”

The e61 research found the large number of people drawn into informal caregiving duties might act as a handbrake on labour force participation.

The likelihood of being out of the labour force is 39 per cent for those with caregiving responsibilities, compared to 34 per cent for those without.